Tips For Planning a Great One
Such showers are parties thrown for friends that are expecting. The practice has changed much over the years and has gradually become more and more elaborate and planned.
Baby showers can make an expectant mother feel more secure in the fact that her friends are all pulling for her and giving moral and financial support.
Usually it is organized by non-relatives. But today, there is isn't abnormal to find family members, support group members, church friends and pretty much anyone except the expecting mother.
Inviting the Guests
Who should you invite? Usually, the guest list will only include those nearest and dearest to the expectant mother. It wouldn't hurt if she gets a first look at the guest list so that she can suggest who should be invited.
If you are planning a surprise shower, you will have to do a little research on who should be attending instead of running the list through the expectant mother.
If the child is not a firstborn, you may opt to keep the number of guests down to the closest to the mother. Firstborn baby showers tend to have a larger guest list since it is, after all, the mother's first child.
The thing to remember is that the nature of such showers is intimacy. So, for any party, try making the gathering one of intimate friends.
You could use informal ways to invite these guests: email, phone etc. Invitation cards and other letters are the best way. They provide a tangible, traceable evidence of invitation. Plus, it is the most sure and formal way to invite a person - and in some cultures - the only way.
What About the Guys
The nature of the party is probably going to tend towards the feminine side; if the organizers of the party have a provision for this, then inviting men would be fine. It also depends on the men, since the party may dwell on topics such as pregnancy, children, and other motherly topics, they might not be that excited to join.
All in all, it depends on the preference of the organizers.
As long as it can keep with the placid and fun nature of the occasion, any place would be fine. The more usual places are backyards, formal halls, restaurants, and basically any room that has the amenities to make the occasion successful.
Just make sure the venue is not crowded and stressful to the mother-to-be. It also pays to make sure the venue is set long before the actual baby celebration happens.
When to Throw a Baby Shower
Usually this is one or two months before her due. The shower is the perfect time to get your friend baby needs and stuff she may not have had time to purchase yet. It has to be well-timed though - not too close to the due date, and not to far ahead that it may whittle down the excitement.
Baby showers are a pleasant surprise to an expecting mother. It takes a lot of the stress of expecting a child off her mind and provides a means for friends to show support and concern (and of course, baby gifts).
A properly coordinated shower will be greatly appreciated and forever remembered by the mother long after her child is born.
Baby Showers and Planning